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"If You’re a Kid of Divorced Parents, You’re a Total Loser" – Dating Stories That Ended When One Person Just Walked Away

Szőke Angéla4 min read
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"If You’re a Kid of Divorced Parents, You’re a Total Loser" – Dating Stories That Ended When One Person Just Walked Away — Relationship
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Documentary

Documentary
The girl said she loved the X-Files series, which made me happy because it was my favorite too. But it turned out she didn’t watch it because she liked it, she thought the show was "real." She literally said the X-Files were real. She believed it was a documentary.

The Wink

The Wink
At the second drink, the girl told me she was ovulating, then gave me a flirty wink. I told her I had to use the restroom, pulled the waiter aside, quickly paid at the bar, and headed out with my head down. Unfortunately, she noticed and chased after me. I ran to my car, she followed. I slammed the door, started the engine, and she was yelling and banging on the window. Tires screeching, I pulled out of the lot while she ran after me, shouting how awful I was for not wanting kids with her.

Pop

Pop
The guy was telling a story when he suddenly let out a huge fart, then kept talking like nothing happened. I was the only one who heard it, but I saw the people at the next table covering their noses and exchanging looks to figure out who did it. Still chatting, he squirmed in his seat and let out another awful one. That’s when I stood up, said I had to go, and left without looking back. Ten minutes later, he texted: “Because of the fart, right?”

First Impressions

First Impressions
The man explained that anyone who’s a kid of divorced parents and raised by a single mom is "a total loser who will never achieve anything," but he could tell I came from a good family. I told him my dad left when I was five, so unfortunately, I’m a "loser," and he shouldn’t waste his time on me. Then I walked away.

Smile

Smile
I was telling the girl a story when she got a message and started typing with a mysterious smile. After a few minutes of awkward silence, I asked who she was chatting with. “Just a guy…” she said, still smiling. I waited five minutes, watching my watch, but neither the smile nor the typing stopped. I don’t know when she noticed I left, but when I looked back from the exit, she was still typing.

The Secret

The Secret
“Wanna hear a secret?” the girl asked. “I told my ex I was on birth control, but I wasn’t. Sadly, I didn’t get pregnant, even though I had plenty of money.” I took a sip of my drink, paid, and left.

No Big Deal

No Big Deal
The guy seemed really sweet when we chatted. He picked me up, opened the car door, chose a cool restaurant, pulled out my chair—I felt like a princess. That was until his first sentence: he hoped I wasn’t bothered by pee play, because that’s the only thing that turns him on.

Dot

Dot
We went to the movies for a really good film, but the guy pulled out a laser pointer and annoyingly moved the red dot across the screen. I and others asked him to stop and not ruin the fun, but he just laughed. Eventually, two big guys from the theater staff escorted him out. He was super offended because I didn’t go home with him.

Like

Like
“I like that you drink with me, my girlfriend doesn’t drink at all,” the guy said on our third date.

Giving Up

Giving Up
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