Divine
Only once in my life did a girl ask me out, and even now, thinking about it fills me with warmth—it felt amazing. I could hardly believe there really was a girl who wanted me and actually said so! Of course, I said yes, and I grinned like a fool for two days straight. We dated for three years, one of the happiest times of my life.
A Miracle
I can’t put into words the boost to my self-esteem when a woman asked me out, so I hope every man gets to experience this at least once in his life.
The Ride
She didn’t exactly ask me out, but here’s what happened. I was at a house party with friends, chatting and flirting with four girls all night. I had work the next day, so I said I had to head out soon. One girl offered me a ride home since she had a car. She wasn’t a classic beauty, but there was something about her. I gave her my address, but she didn’t go there.
She finally stopped in front of a house, and when I asked where we were, she said, “To my place. I’ll take you home tomorrow.” I was speechless—no words can describe how I felt. At that moment, she was the most captivating woman in the world to me. We spent the whole night making love, she really drove me home the next morning, and I never saw her again. Even now, my legs tremble when I think about it.
Missed Opportunity
Unfortunately, a girl asked me out just two weeks after I got engaged, so I had to say no. But... I’ve never met a woman so confident and sexy. She wasn’t upset or dramatic—she just said my fiancée was lucky, wished us happiness, and walked away with a playful smile. She still holds a special place in my heart.
Worth It?
Only ultra-conservative, narrow-minded guys say they don’t like it when a woman makes the first move. But honestly, there’s no point in dealing with those guys anyway—so who cares what they think?
Yes!
The only girl who ever asked me out was a cute, chubby girl, but her confidence in taking that step made her even more beautiful. I wouldn’t have turned her down for anything, so the next day we grabbed a drink. Nothing came of it, but I admired her boldness and we became good friends.
The Bike
I only had this experience once, and it wasn’t great. A “village bike” type girl asked me out. Her name was Dettike, and half the town knew her. She wasn’t a bombshell, but she didn’t look bad enough to have to jump on every guy. Dettike was the one who’d take home any guy who couldn’t pick someone up at the local disco. She never said no.
One day, broad daylight, she asked if I wanted to grab a coffee with her. I was surprised because I’d never spoken to her, but I accepted just to talk some sense into her. I told her she should value herself more and not go out with every guy, because that behavior leads nowhere. In the end, she splashed her cappuccino in my face, called me a jerk, and walked out on me.
Why...
I was on cloud nine, then halfway through the date she said, “Sorry, we’re not what each other is looking for,” said goodbye, and left. I went from heaven to hell, and to this day, I don’t know what I said wrong—we were just talking about movies...
Significance
We love it when a woman asks us out, so ladies, I encourage you to do it more often! I know many say they don’t dare because “what if he rejects me?” My answer: nothing. It won’t matter the next day, so who cares? Our whole lives are a series of rejections, yet we don’t give up—so go for it!
White Raven
It’s so rare to find a woman confident and emotionally intelligent enough to ask a man out. It’s never happened to me, but I’m hopeful.
