It’s Been So Long Since We Did Something Together...
Try coming with clear plans: where you want to go, what you want to do. And giving him some say, at least about timing, goes a long way.
Some guys prefer staying in, so if you don’t get out much, you might be dealing with this. Pointing fingers won’t help—he probably was like this from the start, just gave in more easily back then.
If he resists, suggest taking turns planning fun activities—your week, his week.
Why Don’t You Ever Help Out?
It’s about more than chores, and it’s far from ideal if you end up doing all the cleaning yourself.
If you used to do everything but can’t anymore, attacking him won’t help. Sit down and clearly ask him to pitch in—mow the lawn, put laundry in the basket, close the closet door, etc.
If you stay silent until you’re overwhelmed, he won’t realize these things are tough for you.
It’s Totally Fine That You’re Hanging Out with the Guys...
Whatever’s behind it, communication is key.
You might feel jealous, but sulking isn’t the way to show it. It’s okay to be bothered by spending evenings apart. If you express your feelings calmly, he’ll understand and try to make it right.
And if there’s no real reason, ask yourself why you depend on him so much. Is it really impossible to spend a few hours on your own, enjoying your favorite hobbies or tasks?
Do You Really Have to Keep Checking Out Other Women?
It’s way more fun to admire together how attractive the women and men around you are than to ruin your time with sneaky glances.
Hopefully, you don’t see it as cheating when your partner looks at pretty girls—it doesn’t mean he loves you any less or that you’re not the most beautiful person in his world.
Do You Think I’m Fat / A Good Cook / She’s Prettier Than Me?
These questions often come from trying to boost your own confidence, which wouldn’t be necessary if your ego was healthy. Lack of confidence isn’t attractive, and if it gets out of hand, it will definitely drive your guy crazy.
Tackle the root causes! Feel like he never compliments you? When was the last time you praised him or thanked him for a kind gesture? If you don’t get enough praise, you might not give enough either—and this goes beyond just your relationship.
Also, remember many men find it hard to express their feelings and opinions.
That intense look you get when wearing a new outfit, the belly rub after lunch, or a kiss on your forehead probably say more than a forced compliment ever could…
