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Cooking for Myself Is Not a Luxury, It’s Self-Love — And You Can Enjoy It Gluten-Free Too

Nyul Debóra4 min read
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Cooking for Myself Is Not a Luxury, It’s Self-Love — And You Can Enjoy It Gluten-Free Too — Lifestyle
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Many of us have experienced eating as just a quick stop in a busy day. A slice of pizza during a short break, a packet soup at 10 p.m., or standing while eating a gyro box. Sound familiar? It sure does to me.

Though I was interested in cooking as a child and have many fond memories in the kitchen—learning the basics alongside my mom and grandma—these memories often took a backseat as I grew up. Life got busy, and eating became more of a task to check off than a mindful, joyful moment. But our bodies don’t forget, and eventually, they start to signal.

A Diagnosis That Changed My Routine and Life

Years ago, I found out I’m sensitive to gluten, dairy, and egg proteins. At first, I had so many questions. How will I eat like this? What does it mean in practice? I thought about my favorite foods, family dinners, cakes, and pizzas, and felt like something had ended.

Desperately, I searched for "free-from" alternatives, but early on, they were often tasteless or outrageously expensive—sometimes both. That’s when I decided to take control. If this is my reality, I’d learn to cook well in a way that fits my needs.

I Returned to the Kitchen with New Eyes

I started cooking again. It wasn’t smooth at first. I made mistakes, threw some dishes away, and some were barely edible—though I gave them the benefit of the doubt. But I didn’t give up. Childhood memories—the scent of fresh herbs, the warmth of family recipes—helped me see this learning process as a gift, not a burden.

The more I explored free-from ingredients, the more I discovered how diverse and rich a diet can be without really giving anything up—just thinking a little differently.

And perhaps most importantly: I learned that cooking isn’t just practical—it’s a form of self-love.

Not a Luxury, but a Valuable Investment

I used to think cooking was a waste of time. Now, I see it as one of the best investments I can make for myself. It doesn’t require hours in the kitchen or being a chef. Sometimes, a delicious meal is ready in just 10 minutes, made from carefully chosen ingredients that suit me.

Cooking became my daily little ritual that doesn’t steal time but adds to it. It tunes me in, calms me down, slows me, reconnects me with my body, and reminds me to care for myself.

Paying attention to my own meals isn’t selfish—it’s a clear message: I matter to myself. And that feeling influences everything else in my life.

You Can Enjoy Cooking and Food Gluten-Free Too

When someone switches to a free-from diet, the first reaction is often, “Now I can’t eat anything.” Sound familiar? I felt that way too. But slowly, I discovered there’s a wide world of ingredients and flavors to explore. Rather than limiting me, free-from living sparked my creativity.

I learned to use new spices, alternative flours, and plant-based milk substitutes. I tried new techniques, and over time, I didn’t just cook—I joyfully shared my results with others, mostly on Instagram. That’s still true today because I believe sharing knowledge and experience matters.

Now I say with confidence: you can enjoy your meals free-from. It doesn’t have to feel like giving up—it can be a fresh start.

Care for Yourself, Starting with a Plate of Food

If you need to switch to a free-from diet or rethink your eating or lifestyle for any reason, don’t be afraid. It might not always be easy, but you’ll learn a lot about yourself—your tastes, your body, and the joy of knowing exactly what’s on your plate, made by you with love.

To me, cooking can be so much more than following recipes or experimenting. It can be a way to connect with yourself, the present moment, and give yourself something good, again and again, in every single bite. It’s not a luxury or a waste of time—it’s self-love.

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