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How to Choose the Perfect Shorts Over 40 - DOs and DON'Ts

Nyul Debóra5 min read
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Let's start with some good news that - if you haven't done so already - it's important to realize: style is not a matter of age, but much more about self-awareness and confidence. Regardless of age, the ideal goal is to find the cut that not only looks good but truly represents you.

Regarding shorts, tips from the respected American lifestyle blogger and author Jo-Lynne Shane can be excellent guidelines. We'll show you exactly what she recommends and what to pay attention to so you can find your dream shorts too!

1. Find the ideal length of shorts

The ideal shorts length varies for everyone and usually doesn't mean a specific number but rather a comfortable range. Your body shape, height, and what you feel good in all matter. While you can experiment with different lengths, Jo-Lynne Shane says most of us look better in certain cuts than others. Here are some general guidelines:

  • For shorter women, shorter cuts are generally more flattering - showing a bit more leg makes the legs appear longer optically.
  • Taller women can more easily wear longer styles, such as Bermuda shorts - which can look sloppy on others.
  • Mid-length shorts - roughly fingertip length - suit almost everyone, so if you're unsure, this is a good starting point.

2. DON'T neglect the back view!

As with jeans, how shorts look from behind is crucial. A good cut looks just as flattering from the back as from the front - or even more so!

  • Pay attention to pocket placement: pockets that are too high or too far apart can distort the shape optically.
  • The shorts shouldn't be too loose (to avoid sagging), but also not too tight at the back - neither is flattering.
  • Try on several cuts and don't hesitate to check yourself from behind in the mirror - the overall look is truly harmonious only if it fits well from every angle!

3. DON'T choose shorts that are too tight or too loose

Finding the perfect shorts size is key. Too tight cuts can pull at the hips and bottom, pockets may stick out, and the shorts can ride up uncomfortably. On the other hand, too loose pieces are also unflattering - they can look sloppy and cause issues with leg width (see point 5).

As with many other garments, the harmony of proportions and cut is most important here. It's worth trying on several sizes and testing comfort in different situations - sitting, bending, walking - before making a final decision.

4. Choose good quality shorts

As years go by, the quality of garments becomes increasingly important - this is especially true for shorts. Classic cuts and well-crafted pieces are more durable, provide a more elegant look, and can be easily combined with dressier tops if you want a refined overall effect.

Although fringed hems and distressed details remain fashionable, they represent a youthful style and are not always appropriate for every occasion. They are definitely lovable but worth wearing more thoughtfully and choosing according to the occasion.

5. Pay attention to the leg width

Well-fitting shorts follow the line of the leg without being too tight. If the leg opening is too wide, the overall look can be messy, while too tight cuts can pull at the hips and bottom - it's worth checking both front and back views. The best method is to take mirror selfies in different cuts. Surprisingly, photos often help judge more objectively what really suits you.

It's important to always stand in the same posture and not necessarily from the most flattering angle. Face the mirror and examine how the piece actually looks - this makes it easier to make the right decision.

6. Wear low heels or skin-tone shoes

If you want to visually lengthen your legs when wearing shorts - especially longer styles - it's worth choosing low-heeled shoes. High heels rarely match stylishly with shorts and rarely create an elegant impression. It's not impossible to combine them well, but it requires caution.

If you don't want to wear heels, choose shoes close to your skin tone - this also helps elongate the legs. Additionally, styles that cover less of the foot also lengthen the overall look and provide a lighter, summery appearance.

What you should always consider

When it comes to shorts, you often hear that many people - especially at an older age - are unhappy with the appearance of their legs. Jo-Lynne Shane emphasized: it's important to remind ourselves that every body is different, and we all have parts we like less. Nevertheless, let's be understanding and kind to ourselves!

The key is to wear shorts that fit well and are appropriate for the occasion. Age or the appearance of your legs is secondary in this regard. And remember: no one pays as much attention to your perceived "flaws" as you do!

If you want, a little self-tanner or leg makeup can also help you feel more confident - these are now easily accessible and create a natural effect. Last but not least, it's completely fine if you don't want to wear shorts. But if you decide to, we trust that with the tips mentioned, you'll find your dream piece!

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