Oh, please…
Let me tell you how much: nothing at all! Ladies, if you’re at the point where a guy is sharing your bed, trust me, there’s nothing about your body that would scare him off. My friends and I agree—every woman’s body is beautiful.
Nothing
The only thing we really notice is if someone isn’t on top of their hygiene—nothing else. Small breasts or large, round butt or flat, narrow hips or wide, cellulite, freckles, soft curves: none of it matters. We’re just happy to be with you.
Extreme
There was just one time I was a bit surprised when the topic came up with a lady. Her skin was a little unusual, and she immediately noticed I was thrown off. She explained she used to be very overweight and recently lost over 80 lbs (more than 35 kg). Because of that, her skin was a bit loose, but once she shared her story, it didn’t bother me at all. We didn’t end up together long-term, but her skin and weight loss had nothing to do with it.
The exception
I only know one guy who really cares about a woman’s body. He’s a gym rat, totally ripped, and his whole life revolves around his physique. He once told me he only dates fitness model types, which wouldn’t be a problem—except I’ve seen a few of his girlfriends, and honestly, they all look pretty much the same: waist-length platinum blonde extensions, lashes so long it’s a wonder they can keep their eyes open, huge lip fillers, heavy makeup tattoos, balloon-like implants, and in one case, a very noticeable and unusual butt implant.
So this guy, living on steroids, chicken breast, and protein powder, said he only goes for ultra-thin, constantly tanned, silicone-enhanced girls. I’m fine with that—at least it leaves more beautiful, natural women for the rest of us.
The miracle
When a woman lets us into her "most sacred space," we’re so euphoric we don’t notice any little flaws. We’re human, all different, and none of us are perfect—how could we expect that from anyone else? The woman I’m with at that moment is the most beautiful woman on Earth to me.
It doesn’t matter
I’ve had tall, slender girlfriends and short, curvy ones. I’ve been with sporty, muscular women and also with delightfully plump girls. What they all had in common was that I loved them all the same, and to this day, I still think their bodies were insanely sexy when I look back.
The details
It’s our imperfections that make us human and unique. I had a girlfriend with a mole on her back that she hated, but I found sexy. My ex-wife wouldn’t let me cuddle her if she hadn’t freshly shaved, though I never cared about body hair. I’ve been with a girl who was nicely curvy but only wanted to have sex in complete darkness because she was ashamed of her body. Those are sad things, and I wish every woman could accept her body and believe that we men will love her just as she is.
The exception
Once I was a bit surprised that a girl had hair around her nipples, but that didn’t stop me from continuing my “mission.”
Confident
I’ve been with girls whose bodies were far from perfect but were incredibly sexy because they had confidence and clearly felt great in their own skin. (That’s super sexy!) And I’ve also been with girls who looked like supermodels but had zero self-esteem, no matter how many times I told them they were goddesses…
Blindly
A relationship (even a casual one) is about accepting each other. At first, a shapely breast or round butt is a nice novelty, but in the long run, it’s the other person’s personality that counts. So there’s absolutely no need for women to stress about how perfect their figure is.
