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“When was the last time you felt proud of yourself today?” 10 questions to ask your child after school

Elizabeth Carter3 min read
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“What was the best part of your day?”

“What was the best part of your day?”
This question encourages your child to recall the positive moments of their day. Maybe something funny happened during recess or they enjoyed an interesting class activity… The key is helping them notice the good, even if overall they’re not feeling great.

“What surprised you the most today?”

“What surprised you the most today?”
This question can bring out details your child might not share on their own. Was there an unexpected announcement from a teacher, an exciting experiment, or a new friend? Surprises spark great conversations and often lead to the best chats.

“Did you feel proud of someone or something today?”

“Did you feel proud of someone or something today?”
This question not only helps develop your child’s social skills but also encourages them to pay attention to others. Reflecting on who or what made them proud teaches appreciation for others’ achievements, not just their own. It highlights how important friendship and community are in school life.

“When was the last time you felt proud of yourself today?”

“When was the last time you felt proud of yourself today?”
Building self-esteem is key. Help your child recognize and celebrate their own achievements, no matter how small. Maybe they solved a tough problem or stood up for something they believe in. If they’re unsure what to be proud of, guiding them to spot these moments can boost their confidence and courage.

“What’s one thing that could have made your day even better?”

“What’s one thing that could have made your day even better?”
This question helps your child express any disappointments or challenges they faced. Talking it through lets you understand where they might need support or encouragement. It also sparks problem-solving thinking as they consider how to improve things next time.

“What was the most interesting thing you learned today?”

“What was the most interesting thing you learned today?”
This question helps your child discover the joy of learning beyond grades. When they share what truly interests them, you get insights that can guide future studies or family activities.

“Who were you kind to today?”

“Who were you kind to today?”
Repeatedly asking this encourages empathy. When your child reflects on who they treated kindly, they learn that kindness is a valuable part of daily life. This question is especially important if you want your child to grow up compassionate—it’s a skill that benefits every part of life.

“Is there something you’d love to try at school but haven’t had the chance yet?”

“Is there something you’d love to try at school but haven’t had the chance yet?”
Kids often stick to what’s familiar, but this question invites them to explore new possibilities. Trying a new sport, club, subject, or language can open exciting doors.

“What mistake did you learn from today?”

“What mistake did you learn from today?”
Recognizing mistakes is a vital part of learning. When your child sees errors as chances to grow, they’ll face challenges with more courage. This question encourages talking about both successes and setbacks, helping them learn how to improve.

“What did you play during recess?”

“What did you play during recess?”
Recess is not just for rest but also for building social connections. This question helps you learn how your child spends free time at school, who their friends are, and what activities they enjoy. These insights deepen your understanding of their social skills.

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