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The 10 Commandments of Shopping: How to Shop Smart and Enjoy the Experience

Adrienne Szendrey5 min read
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1/10. Set a spending limit you won’t cross!

If you often find yourself storming the stores at the start of the month, buying all the clothes you feel you must have, and constantly overspending, it’s a sign something’s off.

When you only need one or two things, it’s not a big deal, but if you’re shopping for a whole season, small purchases add up quickly. So it’s smart to decide your budget upfront and shop within it.

2/10. Prioritize!

When you’re working with a fixed budget, it’s key to think ahead about what you truly need, which trends you want to sneak into your wardrobe, and spot those impulse buys you actually don’t need.

You might notice you tend to buy the same styles or colors repeatedly, or sometimes you pick up something not even on your list instead of what really matters.

3/10. Basics and smart picks

Basics might not be as exciting as a trendy boot or coat, but they shape your entire wardrobe.

Invest in core colors for underwear, a couple of comfy jeans, and simple tops—you’ll mix and match these effortlessly in almost every outfit.

When you feel like you have nothing to wear, these basics will save the day—not those “great idea” pieces you bought on a whim that still hang in your closet with the tags on.

Woman’s hand sorting through simple white t-shirts

4/10. Trust your instincts

Shopping with friends can be fun and practical, but sometimes it’s better to go solo and listen to your own instincts.

When someone’s with you, you naturally adapt—you don’t want to hold them up, you ask their opinion, and sometimes end up buying something totally different from what you originally wanted.

So after hearing the salesperson or your friend’s advice, make sure to follow your gut.

Ask yourself if you feel good wearing it, if you actually need it, and if it’s worth it. Answering these will help you make the right choice.

5/10. Size issues

We’ve all bought something that was a bit tight or maybe one size too big. It was a great deal, the last piece, or you just really wanted it. But these buys are often regretted later, because clothes that don’t fit well usually end up unused, just taking up space.

Tip: Know your sizes, try on different brands and styles, and if you’re unsure or between sizes, sleep on it or look for half sizes!

Woman choosing among jeans

6/10. Give it time!

When you’ve been dreaming of a perfect black leather jacket and finally spot a stunning one in a store, it’s tempting to buy it right away.

You can almost picture yourself wearing it and love the feeling. Sure, love at first sight happens, but for bigger purchases, it’s wise to take some time, check out other options, and wait.

Another trick is to have the store hold it for you and come back the next day. If it’s still on your mind in the morning, it’s a sign you should go for it!

7/10. Timing matters

Nobody likes a store that’s a mess, with long lines at fitting rooms, no sizes left, and salespeople running around frantically. That’s typical for a Saturday afternoon, when stores are packed. It’s clear this isn’t the best time to shop, since you might feel stressed, rush your choices, and make less thoughtful decisions. Think about it: when you’re desperate to leave because you need the bathroom, you’re hungry, or the place is crowded, you’re not focused on making the best choice.

Tip: The best bet is to shop early in the day or, if possible, on weekday mornings!

8/10. Special and sale items

There are always special pieces and sale deals that look so tempting you feel you can’t miss out. It’s worth considering if those few special finds will be a good long-term investment or just a passing trend.

Sales can be tricky—you might buy something just because it’s cheaper, not because you love it. A smart move is to browse online and check out outlet stores, where you can find quality pieces at good prices all year round, not just during the overhyped sale seasons.

9/10. Think in outfits

You might have noticed that before heading out to shop, you already have a clear idea of the type of coat, skirt, or shoes you want. Maybe you saw it on Instagram, Facebook, or on the street, and you just can’t stop thinking about that perfect look.

It’s practical to think in outfits before, during, and after shopping—mentally fit the piece into your wardrobe, consider what you’d pair it with, and check if the colors, cuts, and style really suit you.

This way, you avoid buying a skirt or shoes you like but never wear because they don’t match anything.

Chanel-style outfit on a mannequin

10/10. Comfort and ease

How you prepare for your shopping trip matters. You have your budget, a mental list of what you want, and enough time—your plan is set. Still, distractions can lead to less-than-ideal choices.

Wear loose clothes and comfortable shoes (flip-flops in summer) so it’s easy to try things on. It’s also great if you don’t have to carry your coat around. Feeling comfortable during shopping helps you avoid buying without trying or rushing your decisions.

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