Schuster Borka
Schuster Borka is a Bienvibe contributor writing vetted, bite-size lifestyle inspiration on wellness, style, relationships and more.
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Am I the Only One Who Itches When Someone Says, ‘I Don’t Care About Politics’?
There’s a phrase that twists my stomach every single time: “I don’t care about politics.” It sounds innocent, maybe even a bit sophisticated—as if the person floats above it all, refusing to get their hands dirty with the "world’s affairs." The problem is, it’s not a sign of moral high ground. It’s just someone trying to dodge responsibility, happily enjoying democracy’s perks but leaving the hard work to others.
This Was Princess Diana’s Go-To Breakfast — Now a Pinterest Trend
Decades after her passing, Princess Diana still influences fashion and culture — and now our eating habits too. The latest Pinterest craze? A simple yet elegant breakfast Lady Di enjoyed almost every day: grapefruit.
Feeling Full and Supporting Gut Health: What a Fiber-Rich Diet Promises
Lately, gut flora balance has been getting a lot of attention, highlighting that digestion is key not just for feeling good but for overall health. Fibermaxing—mindfully maximizing fiber intake—brings this idea into daily life. It aims to keep you feeling full longer while supporting your digestive system’s best function. But what exactly is fibermaxing, and can it really boost your body, or is it just another trend?
6 Ways to Make New Friends as an Adult
Wondering how to make new friends as an adult? Is it even possible?
Coldplay Scandal: Cheating Is Awkward, But Laughing at It Is Even More Cringe
Recently, a Coldplay concert audience got an unexpected bonus during the show: the kiss cam didn’t catch two teenage sweethearts in the crowd, but a company CEO and the HR director—both not only colleagues but, as it later emerged, married to other people.
How to Create Rose Water Nails at Home: The Perfect Summer Manicure
During the summer months, everyone craves a fresh, light, and radiant look – and nails are no exception. The "Rose Water Nails" trend perfectly captures this vibe: clean, elegant, and subtly feminine. Plus, it’s easy to do at home with just a few basic tools and a little patience. If you want to learn how to create refreshingly romantic summer nails, this guide is for you.
It’s Time to Normalize Moms Going Out to Party
A century ago, a woman who went dancing or grabbed a drink with friends was often seen as "compromised," losing her chances of a good marriage. If she was already a mom, she might be labeled "loose" or "irresponsible."
Working from Home with Kids: How I Balance Summer Break Days
As a freelancer, many envy my flexibility—and they’re right. I don’t have to be anywhere by 7 a.m., no one scolds me for taking breaks during the day, and technically, I could even answer emails from the playground. Still, when summer break arrives, this freedom turns into a tricky puzzle: how can I be fully present at work and in my child’s life without either side suffering?
What Is Slow Travel? The Only Way to Vacation with Kids
Vacation used to mean packed days full of activities, adventurous trips, and nonstop experiences. At least, that was true until I had a child. Traveling with little ones can still be rich and memorable, but it’s definitely not the same. Slow travel is all about savoring moments, not ticking off destinations. It’s a rare social media trend worth embracing.
Wonder Women Don’t Want to Be Called Wonder Women – They Just Want You to Share Their Load
I once dated a guy who spoke with sparkling eyes about his mother being a true wonder woman. According to him, she worked two shifts, raised four kids, yet always had a hot meal ready for her husband, kept the house spotless, and even woke up early on weekends to catch up on chores.
Does It Make Sense to Cover a Child’s Face with an Emoji?
It’s becoming more common on social media for parents—always with the best intentions—to share photos of their kids with their faces covered by a heart, sun, or other emoji. This is their way of protecting the child’s privacy in a space where anyone can access content anytime, for any reason.
There’s Nothing Wrong with Wanting to Be a Tradwife — But Who Really Chooses It?
As a feminist, I believe every woman has the right to live life on her own terms. That includes choosing to be a tradwife — embracing traditional roles centered around home and family.
"I'm not a difficult case, I just don't stay quiet" – a woman’s take on assertiveness
"Could you at least sometimes stay quiet and keep your opinion to yourself?" my mom asked me back in eighth grade, when, despite being an excellent student, I repeatedly got into trouble for politely but firmly disagreeing with my homeroom teacher.
7 Green Flowers That Will Make Your Garden Truly Unique
Colorful flowers can be a feast for the eyes, but green or green-tinged petals add a truly unique splash to your garden. With their unusual look, these flowers are sure to become the stars of your outdoor space!
AI Sex Robots and Women’s Rights – Where’s the Line Between Ethics and Technology?
Just a few years ago, AI-powered sex robots were the stuff of sci-fi novels, and scenes from Westworld felt like wild dystopias. Today, working prototypes and even commercial products are here—and if technology keeps advancing this fast, soon these robots will be almost indistinguishable from real people.
5 Tricks to Make Your Budget Sofa Look More Expensive
The sofa is the heart of your living room — and it says a lot about your home’s style. These pieces can often cost a small fortune, and it’s not always possible to replace an outdated sofa or buy a new one every time you refresh your space. Luckily, a few simple, wallet-friendly tricks can transform even a basic or used sofa into something that looks way more elegant and high-end.
How to Teach Kids When It’s Okay to Break the Rules
As a mom, I’ve taught my child many rules. No matter how laid-back we are as parents, life has boundaries, and some rules are essential for safety.
Top 10 Shark Movies – Beyond Jaws
Steven Spielberg’s 1975 classic, Jaws, didn’t just become the father of summer blockbusters—it forever changed how we feel about beach vacations. The film made such an impact that for a long time, it seemed impossible for anyone to create an equally memorable shark movie.
Top Sex Toys for Women’s Pleasure Under $45
Sex toys were once surrounded by taboo, but thankfully that’s changed. More women are discovering that embracing their own pleasure is not only natural but a key part of self-awareness and self-love. Plus, you don’t have to spend a fortune to try a quality pleasure device.
Why I’m Sure Something Awful About Pedro Pascal Will Eventually Come Out
There’s probably no actor today surrounded by as unanimous and ecstatic a fanbase as Pedro Pascal, who’s admired not only as a brilliant artist but also as a genuinely good person based on his statements and candid moments. In fact, fans almost see him less as a person and more as an icon or symbol. And I think that could lead to trouble.
"They Laugh About How Many Abortions They've Had" – A Disheartening Take on Lily Allen’s Talk About Her Abortions
In a July episode of her podcast, Lily Allen spoke surprisingly openly about her own abortions. The British singer revealed she has terminated pregnancies "multiple times," but can’t recall the exact number.
Red Flags in Bed: Trust Me, If You See This, Run!
Sex alone isn’t the ultimate measure of a relationship, but as one of the most intimate ways two people connect, it reveals a lot about their dynamic.
3 Real Ways to Inspire Women to Have More Children
I recently came across an opinion post by a man claiming Hungary’s population is rapidly declining, blaming feminism and people’s independence. (I’m pretty sure he really meant women gaining independence.)
Sorry, but therapy won’t work if you don’t put in the effort
The other night, after a glass or two of wine, my friends and I were chatting about what instantly makes a man attractive. Some said nice hands, others good humor, and one friend threw in: if he goes to therapy! We laughed at that insight because therapy might not seem the sexiest thing, but when someone works on themselves and shows up as a partner—not a mom—in the relationship, that’s truly attractive. Yet, therapy alone doesn’t guarantee that.