Schuster Borka
Schuster Borka is a Bienvibe contributor writing vetted, bite-size lifestyle inspiration on wellness, style, relationships and more.
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If This Is Your Personality Type, You’d Make a Great Leader
Ambiverts balance extroverted and introverted traits, making them unbeatable in the office.
Is It Really a Problem if a Parent Has a Favorite Child?
Though few admit it, research shows most parents have a "favorite" child. But does this really make them a bad mom or dad?
How to Refresh Your Living Room Without Spending a Fortune
The new year is a perfect time to refresh your home, and you don’t have to break the bank. Here are some budget-friendly tips to transform your living room with style.
A Mom’s Thoughts Standing in the Snow with Soaked Socks
One winter afternoon in City Park, standing with soaked socks, a mom reflects on the fleeting moments of motherhood. Sometimes, the most important thing is to live in the moment—even if it’s uncomfortable.
"I'm only good if I serve everyone." – Why do I still feel guilty when I set boundaries?
Many women struggle with guilt when they say no and try to protect their own boundaries. Social expectations and ingrained patterns often spark inner conflicts.
Living Together During Divorce: Could It Be a Good Idea for the Kids?
January is often called the "divorce month" because many wait until after the holidays to file for divorce. At this time, many wonder: what can they do to make the separation as gentle as possible on their children?
Please, just let me vent without trying to fix my problems right away!
Life can be really tough sometimes, and we don’t always need instant solutions. Sometimes, we just want someone to listen without judgment.
7 Things I’d Tell Myself from 7 Years Ago — Every Mom Needs to Hear This
It’s been seven years since I became a mom, and looking back, I’ve learned so much. If I could travel back in time, these are the words I’d share with my younger self.
6 Key Ingredients Psychologists Say Make a Happy Marriage
Achieving a happy marriage can feel like a mystery to many. But psychologists point to science-backed factors that can truly help.
Ready to Move Now? Here’s the Favorite Home Style of 2026 According to Real Estate Experts
Real estate experts say that in 2026, buyers will choose homes not just by location or number of rooms, but by style and vibe. Craftsman-style houses will take center stage next year.
How I Realized My Need for Control Was Emotional Armor — And How I Broke Free
All my adult life, I believed my need for control was just part of who I am. But I had to face the truth: control doesn’t just bring safety, it can also shut me off from others.
Visiting Home as an Adult: Falling Into Painful Memories
Many think going back to their childhood home is a warm, nostalgic experience. But for those who grew up in unsafe environments, it can feel very different.
No Physical Closeness? So, What’s the Plan? The Dilemma of Sexless Marriages
Many live in sexless marriages without facing the reality. But why choose this uncomfortable path, and what’s their long-term plan?
From Over-Attachment to Catastrophizing: How Different Types of Anxiety Affect Your Love Life
Anxiety isn’t just a private, lonely experience—it also shapes our closest bonds, especially romantic ones.
2026’s Favorite Bob Hairstyles – Super Cool and Easy to Maintain
In 2026, short, elegant, and versatile bob styles are ruling the beauty scene. This year’s trends offer exciting variations that suit every hair type and lifestyle.
Why I Can Believe in Faith but Not in Churches – The Fine Line Between Spiritual Guidance and Manipulation
Faith and churches often spark debate. While many find comfort in a belief system, others focus more on personal responsibility.
10 Steps to Successfully Close a Toxic Relationship
Leaving a toxic relationship isn’t easy—often, it’s not just the relationship dynamics but also the fears and habits within us that hold us back. These 10 steps can help you step out safely and confidently.
My Friend Is Having an Affair. Do I Have the Right to Speak Up or Should I Keep Her Secret Quietly?
A secret I never asked for tested our friendship. How can we stay close while facing a moral dilemma?
Life-Changing Decisions – How to Make Them
Some decisions mark a point of no return. Borka Shoemaker shares how she navigated these pivotal moments.
An Open Letter to Midwives Who Hold Lives in Their Hands
Midwifery is a calling filled with life-changing moments, where women become mothers and babies enter the world. Your work offers not just professional care but emotional support that shapes the lives of mothers and families.
What to Do When a Family Member Falls for Fake News: Conspiracy Theories at the Dinner Table
Few things can disrupt a family lunch faster than an ill-timed comment about the “real hidden powers.” But what can we do when our loved ones spread fake news?
No Need to Justify — Why We Explain Our Feelings Instead of Simply Feeling Them
We often seek explanations for our feelings instead of just experiencing them. Why do we feel the need to justify our emotions?
Why Do We Expect Quick Fixes for Years-Old Wounds? Therapy as a Game of Patience
Therapy isn’t an instant fix—it’s a long, slow, deeply transformative journey. Wanting fast results is natural, but healing the soul takes patience and time.
Currently, dads have no say in whether a woman keeps her baby. Is this the right way?
Debates around abortion rights often raise the question: should dads have a say in a woman’s decision? This article explores the complex balance between parental rights and bodily autonomy.