Schuster Borka
Schuster Borka is a Bienvibe contributor writing vetted, bite-size lifestyle inspiration on wellness, style, relationships and more.
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How to Remove Instant Glue Stains from Any Material
Instant glue can cause a lot of panic when it lands in the wrong spot. Luckily, there are several ways to get rid of those stubborn stains—you just need to know which method works best for each surface.
5 Summer Pieces You Can Rock in Your Fall Wardrobe
Struggling to say goodbye to your favorite summer clothes? Good news—you don’t have to pack them away just yet! With a little creativity, these pieces can shine well into the fall season.
Why I’m Totally Fine If My Kid Doesn’t Go to College
Society often measures people’s worth by their education, but happiness and success aren’t just about degrees. What truly matters is that kids find the path where they can be themselves.
"Sunday Is Sacred!" How Giving Myself Freedom Changed My Life
As a freelancer, it’s easy to fall into the trap of filling every free moment with work. I realized we pay a high price if we don’t keep at least Sundays free.
Kid-Free Weekends: How I Fill Them with Meaningful Experiences
As a single mom, kid-free weekends give me the chance to recharge and rediscover myself. These moments aren’t just about rest—they’re about gathering new experiences.
The Lesson I Learned from a Soaking Summer Shower – And Why I’m Grateful
In the middle of a summer shower, I realized that sometimes we need to let go of control and learn to just be present. That insight brought me a surprising sense of freedom.
3 Things That Could Be Different in Schools — And It’s Not About Money
September always brings back a flood of school memories for me, just like for many others. And honestly, not all of them are the best. While I can at least understand the chalk shortage and the early morning classes in theory, as an adult, I find it harder to excuse the following shortcomings.
Top 5 Fall Hair Colors You’ll Love—Number Three Is Stunning!
As autumn arrives, it’s not just the leaves that change color—hair trends bring fresh, exciting inspiration too. We’ve gathered the brightest, most stylish tones for fall 2025 that you’ll definitely want to consider if you’re thinking about refreshing your look.
The Day I Stopped Suppressing My Anxiety and Started Understanding It Changed My Life
Borka Shoemaker shares honestly how her life changed the day she chose to understand her anxiety instead of pushing it down. This article highlights that managing anxiety isn’t about suppression—it’s about understanding.
Your Ideal Man Based on Your Birthday – Does It Fit You Too?
Tradition says the day you were born reveals the inner qualities you simply can’t resist.
Small Signs That Show I’m Doing Something Right as a Parent
Being a parent is probably one of life’s biggest challenges. Sometimes, just a moment, a reaction, or a sentence reveals that I’ve passed on something valuable.
The Best Drugstore Face Creams for Hydrated Skin – Our Top Picks
Proper hydration is the foundation of skincare, especially on cooler days. Here are six favorite drugstore face creams that deliver outstanding value.
Would I Go Back to the Office for a Higher Salary? Here’s What It Would Take to Give Up Remote Work
The freedom of freelancing and the perks of working from home appeal to many more than a fixed workplace. But how much would it take to give up that freedom? Thoughts on the future of work.
Thoughts for the Mom with a Baby Next Door
Sometimes, a neighborhood connection means more than it seems—especially when a new little life arrives and daily moments are shared over a cup of tea.
3 Love-Attracting "Spells" from TikTok You Can Try at Home
Love has always fascinated people, so it’s no surprise that social media is full of love-attracting spells. These rituals carry symbolic power and can help you focus your own energy.
Sometimes distancing yourself from family is the healthiest choice
Jordan Allen, a communication researcher at Utah Valley University, and Dr. Dawn O. Braithwaite co-edit a blog exploring research on communication and estranged family relationships. When Jordan began studying estrangement, she learned that family researchers and professionals often view it through the lens of individual or collective dysfunction—something to fix or improve.
"I Always Found It Weird When Someone Smiles All the Time" – How Being Kinder Made Me Happier
For two weeks, I consciously tried to be kinder to others. Those small gestures didn’t just brighten their days—they lifted mine too and shifted how I see my social life.
"I'm not afraid of getting old, I'm afraid of missing out on life"
Life rushes by so fast, and we often don’t realize how precious every moment is. My biggest fear isn’t aging—it’s missing the chance to truly live.
5 Daily Habits That Quietly Undermine Your Intelligence
Intelligence isn’t just an IQ number—it’s about how well we apply our practical, creative, and executive skills in real life. Measuring it is complex and multi-layered, and our intelligence levels can change over time. Some everyday habits, however, can seriously hold us back.
The Best Month to Be Born This Year
Science shows there’s an ideal month to be born—and it’s not about who gets an outdoor birthday party.
3 Sentences I Didn’t Hear as a Child—and Still Miss Today
Our childhood shapes us in ways we often don’t realize, especially when it comes to how we see ourselves. As an adult, I’m still working through fears that might have been avoided if I’d heard certain words growing up.
How Your Sibling Relationship Shapes Your Adult Love Life
Our childhood bonds, especially how we relate to those closest to us, deeply shape how we see the world and connect with others as adults.
The Best Age to Give Your Child a Smartphone
More and more kids are getting smartphones at younger ages. But is it really necessary for elementary schoolers to carry the online world with them? Experts agree: early access can seriously impact mental and cognitive development.
Sleeping on Your Side Could Make Your Face Look Asymmetrical
The beauty world and social media often promote the illusion of "perfect symmetry." TikTok videos suggest that side sleeping might distort your face. But how much truth is there to this?