Schuster Borka
Schuster Borka is a Bienvibe contributor writing vetted, bite-size lifestyle inspiration on wellness, style, relationships and more.
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I’m a Mom. That’s Exactly Why I Stand Firm on Abortion Rights
Many find it hard to understand how someone raising a child can passionately support abortion rights. For me, motherhood only strengthened what I’ve always believed: every woman has the right to control her own body.
"I Don't Talk to My Grandma, and I'm Okay with That" – You Have the Right to Cut Ties with a Family Member
My personal values—and what I try to teach my daughter—are that family members are the most important and precious people in our lives, deserving our love and care. But those who don’t give that back simply aren’t family, even if we share blood.
I’m 22 Pounds Heavier Than a Year Ago — and So Much Happier
A year ago, I hit a low point in my life that I thought I’d never come out of. Now, almost 22 pounds heavier and a whole lot happier, I see things differently.
"Not me!" – But it’s time to make peace with the idea of perimenopause
Perimenopause is a natural phase of life worth preparing for. This article focuses on personal experiences and why getting ready matters.
Maybe It’s Not Worth Fighting in Comments, But Here’s Why I Still Do
Many think commenting is pointless, yet sometimes I feel it’s important to speak up. Not for the sake of the debater, but for those silently watching.
Teens Think I’m Awkward, and I’m Learning to Embrace It
There was a time when I partied with the coolest bands in town, and now I have to Google who Chappell Roan is. And honestly, no one can escape this fate.
5 Daily Habits of Longevity Researchers to Boost Their Health
We can do a lot to support our health, but what do longevity experts focus on daily? Discover firsthand what truly helps maintain health for the long haul.
Waking Up Anxious? Here’s What Psychologists Want You to Know
Many people experience morning anxiety that often starts in the early hours. Psychologists’ tips can help ease this uncomfortable feeling.
"I'm sorry, but if you divorce with hate, I think less of you"
Separating from someone you once planned to spend your life with is emotionally tough, no doubt. But if that’s enough reason for someone to start childish attacks, I can only think one thing: clearly, they weren’t mature enough for marriage in the first place.
Nipple Orgasm – It’s Real and Absolutely Amazing
When we talk about orgasms, we usually think of ejaculation, vaginal orgasms, and clitoral orgasms. But there are about 15 different types, depending on how a person’s body responds to stimulation — says Tuğçe Balik, a tantric practitioner and sexologist working on her PhD in human sexuality, in an interview with The Guardian.
Employers Plan Team-Building on Weekends—And I Just Don’t Get Where They Get the Nerve
I paused my decades-long freelance career to take a short detour into the corporate world. The most surprising thing on this little journey was definitely the bossy culture that both employers and employees seem to accept as normal. But I honestly don’t understand how anyone can expect these things from their staff.
Can You "Raise" a Smart Kid? These Parenting Tips Spark Big Growth
Every child has potential, and it’s up to parents to help them unlock their best selves. These practical tips are perfect if your kid is sharper than average and you want to make sure their talents don’t go unnoticed.
Can You Love an Artist Who Did Terrible Things as a Person?
This article explores the conflict between the artist and the person when a talented creator commits morally questionable acts. The writer shares a personal dilemma about separating art from the artist.
These Autumn Entrances Are Straight Out of a Fairy Tale: Stunning Fall Porches
Among all the seasonal touches, autumn decor truly makes a home feel cozy. You can set the mood right from the porch—here are some inspiring ideas to get you started!
Here’s the Number! Exactly How Many Different Plants You Should Eat Each Week
Eating 30 different plants weekly can boost your gut microbiome’s diversity and health. But what counts as a plant, and what counts as a serving?
10 Songs That Instantly Take Me Back to High School. Does Your Heart Beat Faster Too?
I won’t say these are still my top favorites on Spotify, but whenever I hear these tracks, I’m instantly a teenager again. Check out the nostalgic playlist I put together just for you.
Short on Kitchen Space? Here’s How to Expand Your Work Surface
The kitchen is the heart of many homes, but it’s often where we face the biggest space challenges. Luckily, there are simple and budget-friendly ways to increase your countertop area without moving to a bigger place.
6 Things You Should Never Touch in Someone Else’s Home
No matter how comfortable you feel as a guest, every home has areas that are off-limits unless you live there.
How to Clean Those Hard-to-Reach Outdoor Windows: Tips & Tricks
Nobody really loves cleaning windows, especially when they’re on the outside of your home or up on a higher floor. But with a bit of creativity and the right tools, you can tackle this task yourself with confidence.
5 Things I’d Totally Do on a Date Nearing 40
Dating is all about self-discovery, not just finding "the one." Here are five things I’d confidently do on a date now that I wouldn’t have dared in my twenties.
Emotional Gold Diggers: How Some Men Subtly Take Advantage of Women
Emotional gold digging often shows up in relationships where men lean heavily on their partners emotionally, while women carry most of the emotional weight. Social expectations and a lack of personal growth can create long-term imbalance in these dynamics.
How to Make New Friends as an Adult: Building Genuine Connections
Making new friends as an adult can feel challenging, but it’s definitely doable. Honesty, vulnerability, and open communication are key to forming quick and meaningful bonds.
"A mom shouldn’t wear short skirts anymore!" — Why I dress the same as a mom as I did before
"As a mom, you shouldn’t wear that anymore!" Have you heard that comment before? And did you think it made about as much sense as watering your garden in the middle of a storm? Because I sure did.
5 Things Today’s Youth Can’t Believe We Did Without AI
Technology has changed our daily lives at an incredible pace. Those who grew up just one generation earlier still remember how we tackled tasks without artificial intelligence.