Barbara Lee
Barbara Lee is a Bienvibe contributor writing vetted, bite-size lifestyle inspiration on wellness, style, relationships and more.
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Why Girls Who Feel Unloved Keep Choosing the Wrong Men
Therapists say it’s common for girls who grew up feeling unloved to repeatedly pick the wrong men as adults—even when they know it’ll hurt them again. But why does this happen?
Guys Say These Winter Clothes Just Don’t Feel Feminine
We’re not here to talk you out of them—after all, the top priority in winter is staying warm and comfy. Plus, dressing is all about expressing your unique self, not just trying to please others.
How to Slice and Chop Onions the Right Way: Have You Been Doing It Wrong?
Slicing onions is one of those tasks we want to get through as quickly as possible, with as few tears as we can manage. Luckily, knowing and practicing the right technique makes it totally doable!
This Line on Your Palm Reveals How Long You'll Live (But Don’t Take It Too Seriously!)
Just like your fingerprints, the lines on your palm are completely unique. It’s no surprise that these mystical lines have held special meaning for ages.
Does Rice Really Never Spoil? 8 Foods That Last Forever—Basically
Ever heard of thousand-year-old honey? Maybe we haven’t either. But technically, some foods can last forever (or almost forever).
Can We Stay Friends When We Vote Differently?
Politics often tears apart friendships and families because differing political views can represent incompatible worldviews. But can we really keep our relationships strong despite these differences?
I’m a Mom. That’s Exactly Why I Stand Firm on Abortion Rights
Many find it hard to understand how someone raising a child can passionately support abortion rights. For me, motherhood only strengthened what I’ve always believed: every woman has the right to control her own body.
"I Don't Talk to My Grandma, and I'm Okay with That" – You Have the Right to Cut Ties with a Family Member
My personal values—and what I try to teach my daughter—are that family members are the most important and precious people in our lives, deserving our love and care. But those who don’t give that back simply aren’t family, even if we share blood.
I’m 22 Pounds Heavier Than a Year Ago — and So Much Happier
A year ago, I hit a low point in my life that I thought I’d never come out of. Now, almost 22 pounds heavier and a whole lot happier, I see things differently.
"Not me!" – But it’s time to make peace with the idea of perimenopause
Perimenopause is a natural phase of life worth preparing for. This article focuses on personal experiences and why getting ready matters.
Maybe It’s Not Worth Fighting in Comments, But Here’s Why I Still Do
Many think commenting is pointless, yet sometimes I feel it’s important to speak up. Not for the sake of the debater, but for those silently watching.
Teens Think I’m Awkward, and I’m Learning to Embrace It
There was a time when I partied with the coolest bands in town, and now I have to Google who Chappell Roan is. And honestly, no one can escape this fate.
5 Daily Habits of Longevity Researchers to Boost Their Health
We can do a lot to support our health, but what do longevity experts focus on daily? Discover firsthand what truly helps maintain health for the long haul.
Waking Up Anxious? Here’s What Psychologists Want You to Know
Many people experience morning anxiety that often starts in the early hours. Psychologists’ tips can help ease this uncomfortable feeling.
"I'm sorry, but if you divorce with hate, I think less of you"
Separating from someone you once planned to spend your life with is emotionally tough, no doubt. But if that’s enough reason for someone to start childish attacks, I can only think one thing: clearly, they weren’t mature enough for marriage in the first place.
Nipple Orgasm – It’s Real and Absolutely Amazing
When we talk about orgasms, we usually think of ejaculation, vaginal orgasms, and clitoral orgasms. But there are about 15 different types, depending on how a person’s body responds to stimulation — says Tuğçe Balik, a tantric practitioner and sexologist working on her PhD in human sexuality, in an interview with The Guardian.
Employers Plan Team-Building on Weekends—And I Just Don’t Get Where They Get the Nerve
I paused my decades-long freelance career to take a short detour into the corporate world. The most surprising thing on this little journey was definitely the bossy culture that both employers and employees seem to accept as normal. But I honestly don’t understand how anyone can expect these things from their staff.
Can You "Raise" a Smart Kid? These Parenting Tips Spark Big Growth
Every child has potential, and it’s up to parents to help them unlock their best selves. These practical tips are perfect if your kid is sharper than average and you want to make sure their talents don’t go unnoticed.
Can You Love an Artist Who Did Terrible Things as a Person?
This article explores the conflict between the artist and the person when a talented creator commits morally questionable acts. The writer shares a personal dilemma about separating art from the artist.
These Autumn Entrances Are Straight Out of a Fairy Tale: Stunning Fall Porches
Among all the seasonal touches, autumn decor truly makes a home feel cozy. You can set the mood right from the porch—here are some inspiring ideas to get you started!
Here’s the Number! Exactly How Many Different Plants You Should Eat Each Week
Eating 30 different plants weekly can boost your gut microbiome’s diversity and health. But what counts as a plant, and what counts as a serving?
10 Songs That Instantly Take Me Back to High School. Does Your Heart Beat Faster Too?
I won’t say these are still my top favorites on Spotify, but whenever I hear these tracks, I’m instantly a teenager again. Check out the nostalgic playlist I put together just for you.
Short on Kitchen Space? Here’s How to Expand Your Work Surface
The kitchen is the heart of many homes, but it’s often where we face the biggest space challenges. Luckily, there are simple and budget-friendly ways to increase your countertop area without moving to a bigger place.
6 Things You Should Never Touch in Someone Else’s Home
No matter how comfortable you feel as a guest, every home has areas that are off-limits unless you live there.